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Written by Lori Joiner, featured in Katy Christian Magazine https://www.katychristianmagazine.com/2020/02/05/do-you-have-the-time/  It’s the number one hindrance facing women when it comes to discipling other women. I don’t have time. They don’t have time. Who has the time?
I surveyed 100 women formally — and countless others in casual conversations — over my 20 years in women’s ministry to discover what was their biggest roadblock to pouring their life into another woman spiritually. Time was the number one answer. I get it. As a mom of two active boys with a full schedule of speaking engagements, writing deadlines and running a ministry, the sheer thought of trying to line my schedule up with somebody else’s is almost impossible … almost. In Matthew 28:18-20, Jesus gave his followers final instructions before ascending into heaven. He said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Jesus wanted us to prioritize discipling others above all else. He wants us to help others learn about Him, understand His commands and follow Him in baptism. Countless women need a discipler and a mentor. They need someone who will get in the boat with them and then help them understand Jesus, the Bible and the Christian life. But alas, do you have time? Do you have margin to create space for discipling others? Finding Time to Disciple Others in Various Stages of Life I want to help you! I love discipling women, and I know first-hand the challenges to make it work in numerous phases of life. Listed here are some of the ways I have found time over the years. College years – Late afternoons I discipled women in my residence hall, typically in my dorm room. I kept a small fridge of cold soft drinks. When we added a sweet treat and our Bibles, we were good to go! Single years – After college and before I married at the age of 34, I was able to use evenings to disciple women. One dear friend and I met for two years at a local restaurant on Tuesday nights for discipleship. We had a corner booth and were on a first-name basis with the wait staff! Baby years – Newborn baby haze, when you don’t even know what day it is — let alone where your Bible is — can be challenging for discipleship. Once your baby is on some sort of schedule, it becomes much easier to find windows of opportunity. I used one nap time per week to disciple a gal from a local high school. It turned out that when my son was going down for his afternoon nap, she was getting out of school. School years – This is the phase I am currently in. I disciple a group of ladies I met at the gym. A friend and I disciple this group together in case one of us needs to miss for a sick kid or field trip to the zoo! Empty nesters – I know a dear woman who is the grandmother of 14. She is busy with church obligations and is a phenomenal help to her large family. However, she still leads a small group of women spiritually, encouraging them with God’s Word as they face life’s twists and turns. The Bottom Line – In our lives, we have time to do many things. Discipling others and prioritizing the mission of Jesus need to take priority. Make this a matter of prayer. Simply pray that God would bring women into your life to help spiritually and for the time in your week to make her a priority.
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Written by Lori Joiner, featured in Katy Christian Magazine https://www.katychristianmagazine.com/2019/12/05/you-would-think/  You would think getting kicked out of school during my sophomore year of high school for five weeks would have gotten my attention. But it didn’t. I was headed in the wrong direction, trying to impress the fast crowd I was running with at the time. I was partying my dreams away all the while sinking deeper and deeper into trouble.
Written by Lori Joiner, featured in Katy Christian Magazine https://www.katychristianmagazine.com/2019/10/12/my-body-my-instrument-for-god/  I signed up for my first gym membership in college. That first morning, I stumbled through my first exercise class. Winded during the entire workout, and very sore the next day, it’s a wonder I ever went back! But trying to rid myself of the weight I had gained by eating pizza every day in the school cafeteria was a good motivator!
Written by Lori Joiner, featured in Valley Business Report https://valleybusinessreport.com/business-advice/conquering-workplace-conflict/  In teams of any size, workplace conflict will most assuredly happen. This conflict, if not handled well, will lead to a toxic work environment, low production and employee turnover.
Written by Lori Joiner, featured in the Katy Christian Magazine https://www.katychristianmagazine.com/2019/08/05/taking-inventory/  Each week at my home, I meet with a few women I am discipling. One of the women has an extended family with numerous issues involving deep hurt, dysfunction and downright craziness. She is burdened with each situation and through tears, she unpacked several for me this past week as we were meeting.
After listening to her, I said, “You are burdened by things you can’t control. You are upset about things you cannot change on your own. There is so much going on here, I believe you need to take inventory. Written by Lori Joiner, featured in the Hola Katy Magazine https://holakaty.com/2019/04/16/friends-to-enemies-in-a-split-second/  I’m in the phase of life where my children are best friends one minute and enemies the next! They can be playing well together, laughing and having a good time. Then, in a split second, one offends the other in some small way and you would think the world was coming to an end!
Written by Lori Joiner, featured in the Katy Christian Magazine https://www.katychristianmagazine.com/blog/2019/06/05/when-your-bible-study-goes-off-the-rails/  “Here she goes again, monopolizing the Bible Study discussion with another one of her stories. I just wish she would give others a turn so we could actually ‘discuss’ and not just listen to her long answers …”
Have you ever thought this about someone in your small group Bible study? Perhaps you and some neighbors, friends or members of your church get together weekly and the above issue, or others, is holding up the discussion? Written by Lori Joiner, featured in the Katy Christian Magazine https://www.katychristianmagazine.com/blog/2019/04/03/the-power-of-an-invite/  Glazed doughnuts. Ok, glazed doughnuts and cute guys kept me coming to church in the beginning. But what initially got me in the doors was an invitation.
Written by Lori Joiner, featured in the Katy Christian Magazine https://www.katychristianmagazine.com/blog/2019/02/07/when-looking-for-a-great-church-fit-dont-buy-a-lemon/  When looking to purchase a home years ago, I walked into an older home and fell in love instantly. The hardwood floors, a beautiful winding staircase and open ceilings had my heart. I dreamt that night of what those floors could look like oiled up and shining, and how I would decorate the banister for Christmas. However, after the inspection, I learned that my dream home was actually a nightmare. Fraying electric wires, small plumbing pipes in disrepair and termite damage were at the top of the list. I was crushed. No matter how much I loved the aesthetic– with those unseen bigger problems — there was NO WAY I would purchase that home. It was a lemon. When looking for a great church, we can take a few lessons from buying a home and apply those to our hunt. Upon arrival at a new church, you may think you love the beauty of it, the comfortable seats, the funny humor of the pastor or the craft the kids brought home, and be sold! But wait! Take your time and always look deeper before committing to any church home.
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